When you have just begun a relationship with a lady and you find yourself now searching the Internet to see if she has borderline personality disorder this can be your 1st sign that your relationship is in some sort of trouble. The good news is you're hopefully catching things early and can position yourself better to cope with the fact that she might have borderline personality disorder. Most males get wrapped up in almost trapped into relationships with women with borderline personality disorder due to their unique ability to make you feel sorry for them then for them to place blame on others for the reason why their own life is how it is. Here are some common things that may be signs for borderline personality disorder or narcissism and the woman you have started dating.

- Does she immediately confide in you regarding abuse in her past?

- Does she trash her own ex-boyfriend or ex-husband even before you hardly get to know her. Does she seem to go on and on about her ex and the way he ruined her life?

- Does she have an unstable relationship with her mother and father?

- Does she say awful things about her mother and father to you?

- Does she appear very quick to fall in love with you and almost see you as her knight in shining armor?

- Was she quick to sleep with you?

- Does she have a difficult time being pals with different girls? Does she currently only have one pal that seems to keep coming back in and out of her life or does she have no pals at all?

- Does it look like plenty of terrible things keep happening to her? Thrown out by her boyfriend, trouble with money, trouble keeping a job and so on.

- Does she seem to have really compelling tales and reasoning that explains the reasons why the bad things have happened to her (for example, her own ex-boyfriend made her run up her credit card debts and that's why her credit score is bad)

- Does she seem to want to move the relationship forward at an extremely fast pace?

- Has she demonstrated an interest in moving in with you?

- Does she have screaming fits in front of you?

- Does she begin horrible yelling fights with you and when you attempt to leave she begs for you to stay?

- But she bought you extravagant presents?

- Is she prepared to explore dangerous sexual behaviors?

- Does she abuse drugs or alcohol?

If you've answered yes to some of these questions the woman you're dating might have borderline personality disorder. Regardless of whether she has bpd or not this is almost certainly not a lady you wish to have a long-term relationship with. Don't get caught up in the whole "she wants me I can fix her" game, trust me, her own ex-boyfriend thought the same thing. Good luck with your relationship, and bear in mind the very first thing I've mentioned in this piece of writing if you are looking things up about your girlfriend on the internet thinking she may have a mental sickness that's probably not a great sign.

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